FAQs
Why now?
Without our voices, DOS will go down in history as a "sex cult." Although we didn't intend for DOS to ever be a matter of public record, we have been put in the difficult position to either keep our promise of confidentiality or set the record straight.
The salacious narrative surrounding DOS has contributed to criminal indictments, family estrangements, lost or damaged businesses and work, the destruction of friendships, and harm to many personal reputations. Since, so far, no one has been willing to ask the hard questions about the allegations, we are here to ask and answer them. The time to be silent is over. It's time to speak up.
Who is leading the Dossier Project?
This is a collaborative effort between the women you see on the "About Us" page. Every decision is discussed and our final decisions have come about with each woman's explicit consent.
Are there more women like you out there?
Yes, there are many women who are still supportive and positive about their experiences in DOS, but due to the false media narrative and personal attacks, they have chosen to remain silent at this time. We respect and desire to protect anyone who wishes to maintain their anonymity.
What about the women who have publicly said they are victims of DOS?
We acknowledge that extremely negative accounts about DOS have saturated the media narrative, and this is precisely why we are speaking out. We respect and honor everyone's right to speak their mind, and it is not our intent to diminish or invalidate anyone else's experience.
We simply wish to have our stories documented as well. We are privileged to live in a time and place where women are allowed to speak, and we actively stand up for this fundamental human right. We also believe that women should take responsibility for their words and actions, and we endeavor to do just that with the Dossier Project.
What about those women of the Dossier Project who have changed their position on the whole DOS thing? Doesn’t that change how you feel about DOS?
See the previous question and response.
While some people have had a change of opinion about their own DOS experiences, the women still participating in the Dossier Project have not, to date, learned anything that alters our view of the goodness of our own experiences.
We don’t seek to tell others’ stories — only our own.
Why didn't you speak up at Keith Raniere's trial?
We are aware of many women, and men, who wished to testify at Keith Raniere's trial, but due to threats by the prosecution and the reputational repercussions of speaking positively about DOS, NXIVM, or Keith, people chose not to. Sadly, the effects were dire, but it is our hope, and our belief, that the truth will prevail.
What about the branding? The sex? The calories?
Yes, we will talk about all of that. Please check out our articles and videos.
What does “DOS” stand for?
DOS stands for Dominus Obsequium Sororum, which translates to Master, Allegiance, Sisterhood.
Does DOS still exist?
DOS no longer exists, but the spirit of compassionate, strong women working together lives on!
